Rachel, Kristy (& baby Kelston), Julie, Michelle, Lisa, meTuesday was the day of no return. The day I left the Never Neverland of blissful 20-somethings and entered the world of the mid-life crises, acknowledged parenthood, wrinkles, and aches of the 30-somethings. Those older among you will scoff at my "drama" as you nervously shift your walking stick and those younger among you might have a general sense of impending doom, but are still innocently reveling in your 20's (or, heaven forbid, your teens!). But, truly, it was a harrowing transition.
Husbands can rarely be relied upon to ease the pain of such an event. Men are "fixers" and "doers" and somehow the "fixing" and "doing" are just never quite right, are they? Doug's apparent solution was a Happy Birthday phone call and an afterthought call to make sure I would iron a shirt and vacuum the car for his meeting later that night. Hmph.
This is why women need women friends. Good ones. And lots of them. Ones you trust. Ones you can expose your soul to and who do the same with no hypocrisy. Ones who will be silly with you until the wee hours of the morning playing Rock Band and Just Dance and eating and talking and laughing. Julie even made me perfect little chocolate mousse cups with whipped cream and chocolate shavings... Truly this night was therapeutic to my soul.

Today is Hylton's birthday, but because family was going to be gone this weekend, we had him blow out his candles on my cake last weekend. Doug and I racked our brains for something he would really like and decided that we already have everything he could possibly want, so he got gum. Yep, gum. Happy Birthday, Hylton... Seriously, though, I think it made his day!

Let me tell you about my little Turkey.
Thus far, he has been the quietest of all my chillin's. He just goes with the flow. Doug and I always remarked (before he could talk) how alert he was, just silently taking it all in. Suddenly, he has become the most talkative and I think we may have hit the "terrible two's." He is by far more communicative, earlier, than the other two were at this age. He still often sits quietly watching, but is certain to make his opinion known (and loudly) when he comes across something he doesn't like.
He is always making me laugh with his mobile expressions. Has been doing so, in fact, for as long as he could smile. I believe that children are all born with certain "gifts" and from the day he was born I've known that Hylton's gift is the power to engage people. Even when he was a baby, others would remark how they felt drawn in by him; how he had "wise" eyes that seemed to watch them. As he grew older, this developed into a humorous ability to make people laugh. He is an acknowledged flirt. Just let him peep at you under his lashes and flash those dimples and you're done for. I'm just as much a sucker as anyone else. He'll talk back to me and then, when he sees I'm upset, he'll give me his flirty look and all disciplining goes out the window.
More than anything, he just seems comfortable in his own skin. Often, when I leave at night (if he's still awake) he'll watch me leave from the front window with his elbow propped on the back of the couch and his head in his hand, coolly watching me go, and then pick up his other tiny hand and wave a baby goodbye. No tears, no tantrums, no drama.
He is nothing if not endearing, my little man.

My sister and her family moved last week to Arizona for optometry rotations and they wanted one last family trip, so we all drove to Seaside. We played in the sand and kids got completely filthy and wet. It was cloudy and it drizzled a couple times, but personally, I think the beach is a good time in any weather.





Later we cleaned the kids up and took them into town. The boys thought it would be a good idea to take them on the Tilt-a-Whirl and, while my niece and nephew had a blast, my little kiddos thought their world had come crashing down.

We took the kids to the county fair at the end of July. They were too afraid to go on most rides, but this one they were able to control the height of, so they were okay with that.

Doug spoiled them with cotton candy and sno-cones.

Sterling was determined to do the water-gun racing. He went up against Daddy and won a little plush doggie.

Our garden (about two weeks ago)

Peek-a-boo!

Another ugly project has reared its head and postponed the laying of sod. Doug put the hose down the two East gutter drains and found that they didn't drain to the street.

He began excavation to see where the problem lay and found that several feet of pipe had an inch or two of 30-year-old ash (from the Mt. St. Helens eruption), which had collected other things like vines and leaves to create a fairly effective blockage. So far, he has removed 2 gallons of ash from the gutter drain.

