Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Day 2: Verdict? I AM Crazy.

What the heck was I thinking!?

Last night, Sterling was just plain exhausted at 5pm. I thought, "This'll be a good night for them to share a room for the first time. He'll be so tired, he'll just go right to sleep and ignore Evie."

Right.

We put them both to bed at 6:30pm. At 7pm, I had already been in several times to prevent the younger one from being suffocated by the older one who had tramped across the room and shoved her head into the blankets (whether just playing or as "lights out" enforcement, I have no idea).

I decided to leave the door open.

At 7:30pm, I reverted to an old classic of my Mom's: stand in the doorway with a menacing eye and pounce on the first one to move or make noise. It worked for about 20min.

Then I tried shutting the door and leaving them to their own devices. Perhaps motivated by the subconscious thought that if one "offed" the other, we wouldn't be having this problem anymore...

I came in 20 min later to utter chaos. The light was on, Sterling was out of bed playing a puzzle on the floor, Evany was out of bed tearing clothes out of the dresser with lightning speed (how she was getting around in her Sleepsack I have no idea), a chair was overturned, the blinds were askew, and her bed mattress was hanging half off the bed frame. I flipped out.

Let me insert here that I had not had good sleep the night before and I had spent my entire day moving furniture whilst dealing with two (or rather, three) kids in the way demanding my simultaneous attention. Sterling had taken no nap (no break for Mommy) so he was cranky & recalcitrant for the last half of the day, and Doug was at the church so I was dealing with this episode solo.

That was when I called Doug. I knew I couldn't cope anymore without bloodshed and terror.

So of course, by the time he got home at 9, (and I had given up, gone downstairs, and sat on the couch to immerse myself in Raising Your Spirited Child, ignoring any cries- muffled or otherwise) they had fallen asleep. Aarrghh!

Silence. Blessed Silence.

......Until 5:30am.

Sterling woke up and cried for Daddy to take him potty, Evie stirred and that was the end of that.



Sayonara sleep.

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Am I Crazy? Time Will Tell....

I have a tendency to be impulsive and, in most cases, would "rather rush upon my fate" than wait in agonizing "limbo."

I think that's what happened today. I can't explain my temporary lack of sanity in any other way...

Sometime before Hylton arrives, we knew we needed to move Sterling into Evany's room, move Evie to a "big girl bed," and move the crib into Sterling's old room. I have been dreading this change for all the new drama and difficulties I felt sure we would experience (IE, less sleep). And yet, because I knew it was coming, I just wanted to get it over with and settled!

So I did it.


Sterling's and Evany's new room


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Evie sleeping in her big girl bed for the first time

I'm not sure Evie knew what was going on: the whole morning she had just followed me aimlessly from room to room with her blankets, bunny, kitty, and baby trying to figure out where she was supposed to put her things.
I did hear Sterling trying to explain things to her while they were playing in the closet, "Sissy, Mommy has big baby Hylton in her tummy. Baby Hylton have to sleep in the crib and Sissy have to sleep in big bed. Baby Hylton going to sleep in Sterling room." At which point he leaves the closet to come point out my belly, "See Sissy? Mommy have big tummy. Baby Hylton in Mommy tummy."
I got it finished before nap time and Sterling was excited to try sleeping in his new room. Evie got into her new bed without much complaint. After I shut the door is when the fun started. Evie started playing peek-a-boo with her bunny from across the room. Sterling had strict orders to not make any sounds so Sissy could sleep. So then he starts yelling, "Momma, Sissy making sounds!" (repeated again and again....and again)
I kept going back in to put Sissy under her blankets and tell Sterling to just ignore her. At one point, I came in to find Sissy crouched on the dresser next her bed playing with the air purifier!
Finally, I had to just remove Sterling from the room and keep him up for the day.
He kept asking to go back to sleep in Sissy's room, so we tried a couple times after she was asleep, but once in there he'd just cry and say no. So we are sans nap today. Oh joy.
What have I done....?
Hopefully nighttime will go better and naps will get better with time...

Thursday, April 3, 2008

The Last Few Days

On Tuesday night, Sterling washed dishes.


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Sterling also shot more photos:



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Wednesday morning we went to the Zoo with Aunt 'Shell & Baby Eli to enjoy the nice weather.



Another Sterling special: the sunbathing tiger
I really want to pet the scruff under his chin- he looks so soft...

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Today the kids are playing in our "scalped" backyard with their punch balloons. We are soakin' up the sunshine!





You can see where Doug ran out of Weed Eater line